Losing baby teeth is something all kids go through. For many families, it’s a mix of excitement and nerves. Some kids can’t wait for the Tooth Fairy. Others get scared or feel unsure about what’s happening in their mouth. Parents often wonder, “Should I pull this tooth out now or wait?”
If you’re not sure what to do, you’re not alone. This guide will help you understand when it’s okay to help with a loose tooth—and when it’s better to wait or see a dentist.
When Do Kids Start Losing Teeth?
Most children start to lose baby teeth around age 6, though it can begin as early as 4. The lower front teeth (called the lower central incisors) are usually the first to go. Baby teeth, also called deciduous teeth, loosen as the adult teeth begin to grow underneath.
Some children lose their teeth early or late compared to others. That’s okay. Every child is different, and the timeline can vary. If you’re ever unsure, a dentist can take a look and let you know if everything is on track.
When It’s Okay to Pull a Loose Tooth
There are times when helping your child remove a tooth makes sense. Here are a few signs that it might be the right time:
It’s Hanging by a Thread
If the tooth is barely attached and your child can wiggle it back and forth easily with their tongue or finger, it may be ready to come out. Pulling it at this stage will likely be quick and painless.
It’s Blocking the Adult Tooth
Sometimes a baby tooth doesn’t fall out even though the adult tooth is coming in behind or beside it. This can crowd the new tooth and cause spacing issues. If this happens, a dentist might suggest removing the baby tooth to make space.
It Looks Infected
If a loose tooth looks red, swollen, or has pus coming from the gums, it could be infected. Other signs might include pain, bad breath, or a change in how the tooth or gums look. In this case, it’s best to call a dentist right away.
When You Shouldn’t Pull a Tooth
Just because a tooth is loose doesn’t mean it’s time to pull it. Here are situations when it’s better to wait:
The Tooth Is Still Firm
If the tooth is wiggly but not very loose, leave it alone. Forcing it out too soon can hurt the gums or cause bleeding. It may also lead to problems with the adult tooth coming in the right way.
Your Child Is Scared
If your child seems nervous or anxious about pulling the tooth, don’t push it. A bad experience might make them more scared the next time. Let them take the lead or ask your dentist to help when they’re ready.
The Tooth Has a Complicated Shape
Some baby teeth have multiple roots or may be in a tricky spot. Trying to remove them at home might be hard and painful. In these cases, it’s safer to let a dentist take care of it.
What If My Child Swallows a Tooth?
It sounds scary, but swallowing a tooth usually isn’t harmful. The tooth will either dissolve in the stomach or pass through the digestive system without any problems. Still, it’s a good idea to reassure your child and maybe write a little note to the Tooth Fairy explaining what happened.
Foods to Avoid with a Loose Tooth
Kids with wiggly teeth should skip foods that are hard, chewy, or sticky. These can pull the tooth out before it’s ready or cause pain. Try to give them soft foods instead, like:
- Yogurt
- Mashed potatoes
- Applesauce
- Scrambled eggs
Also, remind them to chew on the opposite side of their mouth until the tooth falls out.
Easing Pain from a Loose Tooth
Loose teeth don’t usually hurt, but sometimes they can cause discomfort. If your child says their mouth is sore, try these tips:
- Use a cold compress on the outside of the cheek for 10 to 15 minutes at a time.
- Offer soft foods and remind them not to chew near the sore area.
- For stronger pain, ask a dentist if a child-safe anti-inflammatory medicine is okay to use.
Tips for Pulling a Tooth Safely
If the tooth is really loose and your child is ready, you can help it come out gently. Here’s how:
- Wash Your Hands: Always start with clean hands to avoid spreading germs.
- Use Clean Tools: If using a tissue or gauze, make sure it’s fresh and clean.
- Be Gentle: Wiggle the tooth back and forth slowly. Don’t yank or twist hard.
- Give Comfort: Stay calm and supportive. If the tooth comes out, have a tissue ready in case there’s a little bleeding.
- See a Dentist If Needed: If anything feels off or your child is in pain, it’s better to have the dentist take a look.
Should You See a Dentist?
If a tooth is loose for a long time but doesn’t fall out, if there’s pain or swelling, or if the adult tooth is growing in the wrong place, call a dentist. It’s better to catch a problem early than wait for it to get worse.
Some parents also prefer to have a dentist check their child’s teeth before they start falling out. This can give you peace of mind and help you know what to expect.
Let the Tooth Fairy Wait (Sometimes)
Losing baby teeth is a normal part of growing up. While it’s exciting to help your child mark this milestone, it’s also important to know when to step in and when to hold back. Letting teeth fall out naturally is usually best, but there are times when a little help—or a visit to the dentist—is the right call.
If you’re ever unsure about what to do, Suncreek Dental Group is here to help. We’re happy to answer your questions and check your child’s smile to make sure everything is healthy. Call us at (303) 933-2522 to schedule an appointment or learn more about caring for your child’s teeth.
Category: For Kids